Waitress saves suicidal boy with a kiss

Thursday, June 30, 2011

အနမ္းေပး၍ အသက္ကယ္....

Liu, 19 saved a boy from plunging to his death with a kiss.
                                                    Liu, 19 saved a boy from plunging to his death with a kiss.
                                                      



မႏွင္းၿဖဴေလး ( Snow White ) ပံုၿပင္ထဲကအတုိင္း စိတ္ကူးယဥ္ဇတ္လမ္းေလးတစ္ခု အၿပင္မွာတစ္ကယ္
ၿဖစ္ပြားခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
လ်ဴ၀န္းရွဴ အမည္ရွိတဲ ့မိန္းကေလးရဲ ့အနမ္းက အသက္ ၁၆ ႏွစ္အရြယ္ရွိေကာင္ေလးတစ္ေယာက္ရဲ ့အ
သက္ကုိကယ္တင္နုိင္လုိက္ခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
လ်ဴ ဟာ လြန္ခဲ ့သည္ ့ဇြန္လ ၁၁ ရက္ေန ့က ရွန္က်န္ ့ၿမဳိ ့လယ္မွ လူကူးတံတားတစ္စင္းေပၚမွာၿဖတ္ေနခုိက္
လူငယ္တစ္ေယာက္ လက္ထဲမွာဓါးတစ္လက္ကုိင္ထားၿပီး တံတားေပၚက ခုန္ခ်မလို ့ၿခိမ္းေၿခာက္ေၿပာဆုိေန
တာကုိ ရာနဲ ့ခ်ီတဲ ့လူေတြ ၀ုိင္းအုံႀကည္ ့ေနတာကုိေတြ ့ခဲ ့ရပါတယ္...
" သူဟာ ( အဲဒီေကာင္ေလးဟာ ) စိတ္ေတြပုိၿပီးဆက္ကာဆက္ကာတစ္အားလွဳပ္ရွားေနလာခဲ ့တာေတြ ့ခဲ ့ရ
ပါတယ္... အနားတစ္၀ုိက္ကလူေတြကေတာ ့ရပ္ႀကည္ ့ရံုသာရပ္ႀကည္ ့ေနႀကၿပီး တစ္ေယာက္မွ် တက္ၿပီးကူ
ညီဖုိ ့မႀကဳိးစားခဲ ့ႀကပါဘူး..." ဟု အသက္ ၁၉ ႏွစ္အရြယ္ရွိ ဟုိတယ္စားပဲြထုိးမေလးက ဆုိပါတယ္...
" သူ ့ကုိေတာ ့ကယ္ရမွာပါ...ဘာၿဖစ္လုိ ့လည္းဆုိေတာ ့ကြ်န္မလည္း အယင္တံုးက အဲဒီလိုၿဖစ္ခဲ ့ဖူးလို ့ဒီလို
( အေၿခအေနမွာ ) ၿဖစ္ယင္ဘယ္လိုခံစားေနရမယ္ဆုိတာ ေသေသခ်ာခ်ာသိပါတယ္..." လုိ ့ယခင္က အ
ႀကိမ္ေတာ္ေတာ္မ်ားမ်ား ကုိယ္  ့ကုိယ္ကုိ သတ္ေသဖုိ ့ႀကဳိးစားခဲ ့သည္ ့လ်ဴ ကဆက္လက္ေၿပာႀကားခဲ ့ပါ
တယ္...
လူငယ္ေလးဟာ တံတားလက္ရန္းအၿပင္ဘက္တြင္ရွိေနၿပီး ေအာက္ကုိၿပဳတ္က်ဖုိ ့ေၿခတစ္လွမ္းမွ်သာ အလုိ
မွာၿဖစ္ေနခဲ ့ပါတယ္...ေဒသခံရဲတပ္ဖြဲ ့မွ ၎အားထုိကဲ ့သုိ ့သတ္ေသရန္ႀကံစည္မွဳကုိ တားဆီးရန္ႀကဳိးစား
ခဲ ့ေသာ္လည္း မေအာင္ၿမင္ပဲၿဖစ္ေနခဲ ့ပါတယ္...

သူမဟာ ထုိလူငယ္ေလးရဲ ့ခ်စ္သူၿဖစ္ၿပီး ၎ယခုကဲ ့သို ့ခံစားၿဖစ္ပ်က္ေနရတာဟာလည္း သူမေႀကာင္ ့ၿဖစ္
ရတာပါလုိ ့ရဲတပ္ဖဲြ ့ကုိေၿပာႀကားခဲ ့ၿပီး လ်ဴ ဟာ ထုိေကာင္ေလးအနားသုိ ့ေရာက္ေအာင္သြားနုိင္ခဲ ့ပါတယ္..
" အမွန္ေတာ ့ကြ်န္မသူ ့ကုိအယင္ကတစ္ခါမွမေတြ ့ခဲ ့ဖူးပါဘူး...ဒါေပမယ္ ့ေလာေလာဆယ္အဲဒီလိုပဲေတြး
မိခဲ ့တာမုိ ့ဒီလိုေၿပာလိုက္တာပါ..." လို ့သူမကၿပန္ေၿပာၿပခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
ေဒသဆုိင္ရာရုပ္သံသတင္းအရ ထုိလူငယ္ေလးရဲ ့မိခင္ၿဖစ္သူဟာ ကြယ္လြန္သြားခဲ ့ၿပီး သူ ့ရဲ ့မိေထြးၿဖစ္သူ
ကလည္း သူ ့ကုိေကာင္းမြန္စြာမဆက္ဆံပဲ သူ ့ဖခင္ၿဖစ္သူရဲ ့ေငြေတြအားလံုးကုိယူၿပီး ထြက္ေၿပးသြားခဲ ့ပါ
တယ္...
ဖခင္ၿဖစ္သူနဲ ့သားၿဖစ္သူတုိ ့ဟာ အခ်ိန္ပုိင္းအလုပ္၀င္လုပ္ၿပီး သူတုိ ့ရဲ ့ဘ၀ကုိ တစ္ဖန္ၿပန္စခဲ ့ႀကရပါတယ္..
လူငယ္ေလးရဲ ့အေႀကာင္းႀကားသိရေတာ ့လ်ဴ ဟာငုိေႀကြးခဲ ့မိပါေတာ ့တယ္...
" သူ ့မွာေနစရာအိမ္လည္းမရွိေတာ ့ဘူး၊ တစ္ေယာက္မွလည္းသူ ့ကုိဂရုမစုိက္ေတာ ့ဘူး၊ တစ္ေယာက္မွ
လည္းသူ ့ကုိမယံုႀကေတာ ့ဘူးလို ့သူက ကြ်န္မကုိေၿပာပါတယ္...
ကြ်န္မက သူ ့ကုိဘာမွမေၿပာပဲ ကြ်န္မရဲ ့ညာဖက္လက္ေကာက္၀တ္က ဒါဏ္ရာေတြကုိၿပလိုက္ပါတယ္...
ကြ်န္မက မႀကာခဏကုိယ္ ့ကုိယ္ကုိ သတ္ေသတတ္ပါတယ္...လက္ေကာက္၀တ္ေသြးလႊတ္ေႀကာကုိၿဖတ္
ၿပီး သတ္ေသဖုိ ့ႀကဳိးစားခဲ ့ဖူးတယ္...တုိက္အၿမင္ ့ေပၚကခုန္ခ်ၿပီး သတ္ေသဖုိ ့ႀကဳိးစားဖူးတယ္၊ တစ္ၿခားနည္း
ေတြနဲ ့လည္းသတ္ေသဖုိ ့ႀကဳိးစားခဲ ့ဖူးတယ္ လို ့သူ ့ကုိေၿပာၿပခဲ ့ပါတယ္..." လုိ ့လ်ဴက ထုိလူငယ္ေလးရဲ ့အ
သက္ကုိ ေအာင္ၿမင္စြာကယ္တင္ၿပီးေနာက္ ေဒသခံရုပ္သံအစီအစဥ္တစ္ခုႏွင္ ့ေတြ ့ဆံုေမးၿမန္းခန္းမွာ ေၿပာ
ႀကားခဲ ့ပါတယ္...

တရုတ္နုိင္ငံ၊ အန္ေဟြၿပည္နယ္တြင္ေမြးဖြားခဲ ့သည္ ့လ်ဴ ဟတက်က္က်က္ရန္ၿဖစ္ေနသည္ ့မိဘႏွစ္ပါးထံ
တြင္ ႀကီးၿပင္းခဲ ့ရၿပီး ဆံြ ့အ၊နားမႀကားၿဖစ္ေနသည္ ့သူမရဲ ့အစ္မ ကုိလည္းႀကည္ ့ရွဳေစာင္ ့ေရွာက္ခဲ ့ရပါေသး
တယ္....
ဘ၀ရဲ ့ခက္ခဲၿပင္းထန္တဲ ့ဖိအားေတြေႀကာင္ ့သူမဟာ အထက္တန္းေက်ာင္းသူဘ၀မွာပင္ေက်ာင္းထြက္ခဲ ့ရ
ၿပီး ဆယ္ေက်ာ္သက္ဘ၀မွာပင္ စတင္အလုပ္လုပ္ခဲ ့ရပါတယ္...
အိမ္မွာဆုိဘယ္သူမွ စိတ္မခ်မ္းသာႀကပါဘူး...ကြ်န္မရဲ ့မိဘႏွစ္ပါးကလည္း တစ္ခ်ိန္လံုး ေအာ္ဟစ္ရန္ၿဖစ္ေန
ႀကလို ့အစ္မႏွင္ ့ကြ်န္မလည္း စိတ္ညစ္ေနႀကရပါတယ္...
ဒီလူငယ္ေလး ( ရဲ ့ဘ၀ဟာ ) ကြ်န္မငယ္ငယ္ကလိုပါပဲ...( စိတ္မခ်မ္းသာခဲ ့ရပါဘူး ) " လို ့လ်ဴ ကေၿပာႀကား
ခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
လူငယ္ေလးဟာ ပုိမုိသည္းထန္စြာငုိေႀကြးေနခဲ ့တာမုိ ့သူ ့မွာ ခံစားနားလည္နုိင္တဲ ့စိတ္ဓါတ္ရွိတယ္ဆုိတာ
လ်ဴ သိခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
" သူက သူ ့ဘ၀ဟာေမွ်ာ္လင္ ့ခ်က္ကင္းမဲ ့ေနၿပီမုိ ့သူ ့ကုိကယ္ဖုိ ့အခ်ိန္ကုန္ခံမေနပါနဲ ့လို ့ဆုိခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
ဒါေပမယ္ ့ကြ်န္မကသူ ့ကုိ ငါမင္းရဲ ့အသက္ကုိကယ္ေနတာမဟုတ္ပါဘူး...မင္းအခုလိုလုပ္ေနတာဟာ ဘယ္
ေလာက္မုိက္မဲသလဲဆုိတာ မင္းကုိသိေစခ်င္တာပါပဲ...
ငါ့ကုိႀကည္ ့....ငါဟာ အယင္ကအဲဒီလို (မင္းလို)အေၿခအေနမ်ဴိးမွာရွိခဲ ့ၿပီး အခုအခါမွာေတာ ့ဒီလိုပဲဆက္
လက္အသက္ရွင္ေနထုိင္ခဲ ့တာပါပဲ..." လို ့သူမကဆုိခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
မေမွ်ာ္လင္ ့ပဲ လ်ဴ က ထုိလူငယ္ေလးကုိေပြ ့ဖက္လုိက္ၿပီး နမ္းခဲ ့လိုက္ၿခင္းၿဖင္ ့တံတားေပၚက ေသေႀကာင္း
ႀကံမွဳကုိ တားၿမစ္ဖုိ ့ေဆြးေႏြးေၿပာဆုိမွဳဟာ ႀကည္ႏူးခ်မ္းေၿမ ့ဖြယ္ရာ အၿဖစ္အပ်က္နဲ ့အဆံုးသတ္ခဲ ့ပါတယ္..
ရဲတပ္ဖဲြ ့က ထုိအေၿခအေနကုိအခြင္ ့ေကာင္းယူၿပီး လူငယ္ေလးရဲ ့ဓါးကုိ ဆဲြယူလုိက္ၿပီး သူ ့ကုိလည္း တံတား
လက္ရန္းအတြင္းဖက္ကုိ ဆဲြေခၚနုိင္လုိက္ခဲ ့ပါတယ္....
" ကြ်န္မသူ ့ကုိနမ္းလိုက္ေတာ ့သူက သူ ့ရဲ ့ဓါးကုိင္ထားတဲ ့လက္ကုိ ကြ်န္မရဲ ့ခါးေပၚမွာတင္ၿပီးထိန္းလိုက္ပါ
တယ္...ကြ်န္မတုိ ့ႏွစ္ေယာက္စလံုးဟာ နင္ ့နင္ ့သီးသီးငုိေႀကြးခဲ ့ႀကပါတယ္...ဒါေပမယ္ ့သူ ့အသက္ကုိကယ္
တင္နုိင္ခဲ ့လုိက္တာမုိ ့ကြ်န္မအေနနဲ ့၀မ္းသာေက်နပ္မိပါတယ္...." လို ့သူမကဆုိပါတယ္...
သူမအေနႏွင္ ့သူ ့ကုိမနမ္းလိုက္ခင္မွာ ဒီလိုလုပ္ၿခင္းၿဖင္ ့သူ ့ကုိေၿဖသိမ္ ့နုိင္လိမ္ ့မယ္ဆုိတာကလဲြလို ့တစ္
ၿခားဘာမွ ေထြေထြထူးထူးမေတြးမိခဲ ့ပါဘူးလို ့သူမကဆုိပါတယ္...
" သူ ့အေနနဲ ့တစ္ၿခားမၿဖစ္သင္ ့တာမလုပ္ေဆာင္ေအာင္ သူ ့ရဲ ့စိတ္ကုိတည္ၿငိမ္ေစဖုိ ့လိုတယ္လုိ ့ပဲ ကြ်န္မ
ရုိးရုိးကေလးေတြးလိုက္တာပါပဲ....
ရဲေတြကလည္းကြ်န္မတုိ ့အနားမွာမုိ ့ေကာင္ေလးကြ်န္မကုိ ဆဲြၿပီး ေအာက္ကုိခုန္ခ်လုိက္မွာကုိ မစုိးရိမ္မိပါ
ဘူး " လုိ ့သူမကေၿပာႀကားခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
လူငယ္ေလးကုိကယ္တင္ၿပီးေနာက္မွာေတာ ့လ်ဴ ဟာသူမရဲ ့ခရီးကိုဆက္လက္ထြက္ခြာခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
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Like a real life version of Snow White, Liu Wenxiu's kiss literally saved the life of a 16-year-old boy.
Liu just passing by a pedestrian bridge in downtown Shenzhen on June 11 when she spotted hundreds of onlookers watching a young man with a knife in his hand, threatening to jump.
"I saw him get more and more excited - everybody around was just looking, nobody was trying to step up and help," said Liu, a 19-year-old hotel waitress.
"He had to be saved - because I've been there before and I knew exactly how it was," continued Liu, who had attempted suicide several times.
The boy was outside the guardrail and only one step from falling. Local police had tried without success to persuade him to give up.  
Liu managed to get close to the boy by telling the police that she was his girlfriend and also the reason for his attempt to commit suicide.
"The fact is I'd never seen him before, but that's the only idea I could come up with at the time," she recalled.
According to local television, the boy's mother had passed away, his stepmother didn't treat him well and she left with all his father's money.

The father and son had to take part-time jobs and start their lives over again.
Liu started to sob when she heard the story.
"He told me he didn't have a home anymore, nobody cared about him and no one trusted him. I said nothing but showed him the scars on my right wrist.
I used to be suicidal - I've attempted cutting my artery, jumping from a high building and others," said Liu during a local TV interview after her successful rescue.

Born in Anhui province, Liu grew up amid quarrelling parents and the responsibility to take care of her elder sister who is a deaf-mute.
Life pressure forced her to quit high school and start working when she was only a teenager.

Nobody in my family was happy - both of my parents spent days brawling, which left my sister and I gloomy. That boy, he was like a younger me," Liu said.
With the boy crying even harder, Liu knew he had a sense of being understood. "He said he's hopeless, 'so don't waste your time to save me'.
But I told him, 'I'm not saving your life, I just want you to realize how silly you are being.
Look at me, I've been there and I'm now here,'" she said.
The negotiation on the bridge ended like a romantic comedy when Liu hugged the boy and kissed him unexpectedly.
Police took advantage of the situation to take away the boy's knife and pull him inside the handrail of the bridge.
"When I kissed him and when he put his hand (with the knife) on my waist, both of us were crying so hard," she said. "But I was happy as I knew I had saved him."
Liu said she didn't think too much before she offered her kiss, only that she knew it would comfort him.
"I simply thought he has to be stabilized, so he won't do anything stupid. The police were near us and I didn't worry about being pulled down by the boy," she said.
Liu left after the rescue. Local police called her soon after because the boy refused to reveal his story without her presence.


"I didn't go but we talked over the phone and exchanged our phone numbers. I promised him that I would call him later and I will, to encourage him to lead a better life," Liu said.
Liu feels very uneasy after the accident as her mobile phone has been bombarded with calls for interviews, according to Lai Shouyan, Liu's boss at the Hepans Taipan SPA Boutique Hotel.

"Personally I hope this doesn't affect my work and normal life. I didn't want to think much of the accident just like I didn't think much when I went forward to save the boy," Liu said. "For me the most important thing is that we live and enjoy each day."
Source: China Daily/ANN

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