Chinese husband allows wife to attack him once a week

Thursday, December 10, 2009

တစ္ပါတ္တစ္ခါေလာက္ေတာ့ kick  ပါေနာ္...



 ခ်စ္ေတာ ့ခ်စ္တယ္....ေႀကာက္ရတယ္...
တရုတ္နုိင္ငံ၊ ခ်ဴံကင္း ညေနပုိင္းသတင္းစာ တြင္ေဖာ္ၿပခ်က္အရ အသက္ ၃၂ ႏွစ္အရြယ္ရွိ
မစၥတာက်န္ အမည္ရွိ အမ်ဴိးသားတစ္ဦးဟာ ကြန္ဖူးသုိင္းတတ္သူဇနီးၿဖစ္သူရဲ ့ လက္ခ်က္
ဒါဏ္ အၿမဲခံစားေနခဲ ့ရတာေႀကာင္ ့ သက္သာရာရေႀကာင္းအေနၿဖင္ ့ သူမအေနနဲ ့သူ ့အား
တစ္ပါတ္လွ်င္ တစ္ႀကိမ္သာ ထုိးႀကိတ္၊ရုိက္ႏွက္၊ ကန္ေႀကာက္ခြင္ ့ရွိေႀကာင္း သေဘာတူညီ
မွဳ စာခ်ဴပ္ လက္မွတ္ေရးထုိးခ်ဴပ္ဆုိခဲ ့ႀကသည္ဟုသိရသည္....

” ကြ်န္မအေနနဲ ့သူ ့ကုိ အနုိင္က်င္ ့ၿပီးထုိးႀကိတ္၊ကန္ေက်ာက္မေနခ်င္ပါဘူး...ဒါေပမယ္ ့လင္
နဲ ့မယားဆုိတာ လွ်ာနဲ ့သြားဆုိသလုိပါပဲ....သေဘာထားၿခင္းမတုိက္ဆုိင္တာေတြ၊ ၿငင္းခံုတာ
ေတြကေတာ့ေရွာင္လႊဲလုိ ့မရပါဘူး.... အဲဒီလုိ အေၿခအတင္ၿငင္းခံုေၿပာဆုိႀကရၿပီဆုိရင္လဲ
ကြ်န္မက လက္မပါပဲ မေနနုိင္ေတာ ့ပါဘူး...” လုိ ့ သူ ့ရဲ ့ဇနီးၿဖစ္သူက သတင္းစာကုိေၿပာ
ၿပခဲ ့ပါတယ္...



 kick စၿမဲ...ခ်စ္ဆဲ....


အခုလုိ သေဘာတူညီမွဳ စာခ်ဴပ္လက္မွတ္မထုိးခင္ ရက္သတၱပါတ္အတြင္းမွာတင္ သူမဟာ
သူ ့ကုိ သံုးႀကိမ္တုိင္တုိင္ ထုိးႀကိတ္၊ကန္ေႀကာက္ခဲ ့ပါေသးတယ္လုိ ့ဆုိပါတယ္...
ေရာင္း၀ယ္ေရးကုမၸဏီတစ္ခုမွာ အေရာင္းမန္ေနဂ်ာအၿဖစ္ တာ၀န္ထမ္းေဆာင္ေနတဲ ့သူ ့ရဲ ့ဇနီး
ၿဖစ္သူဟာ ကြန္ဖူးသိုင္းပညာကုိ သူမငယ္စဥ္ကတည္းက ေလ ့လာသင္ယူခဲ ့တာၿဖစ္ၿပီး၊ သူ ့
အေနနဲ ့လည္း သူမရဲ ့ၿပင္းထန္တဲ ့စိတ္ဓါတ္နဲ ့ကုိယ္ ့အားကုိယ္ ကုိးစိတ္ဓါတ္ကုိ ႏွစ္သက္သ
ေဘာက်ၿပီး၊ ခ်စ္ခဲ ့တာၿဖစ္တယ္လုိ ့ခင္ပြန္းၿဖစ္သူမစၥတာက်န္းကဆုိပါတယ္....

သူတုိ ့အိမ္ေထာင္မက်ခင္ သမီးရည္းစားဘ၀ ေၿခာက္လအတြင္းမွာကိုပဲ သူ ့အေနနဲ ့သူမရဲ ့လက္
စြမ္းလက္စ ဒါဏ္ကုိ အေတာ္ခံခဲ ့ရတာၿဖစ္ပါတယ္လုိ ့သူက ၀န္ခံေၿပာဆုိခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
” ကြ်န္ေတာ္တုိ ့လက္မထပ္ခင္တံုးက သူမရဲ ့ဆံပင္ဒီဇုိင္းက ေတာ္ေတာ္ေလးမုိက္လုိ ့ ကြ်န္ေတာ္
ကသူမကုိ အဲဒီဆံပင္ပံုစံနဲ ့ဆုိ က်ားမေလးနဲ ့တူတယ္လုိ ့စ ခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
အဲဒါေႀကာင္ ့သူမနဲ ့ကြ်န္ေတာ္ စကားမ်ားခဲ ့ႀကၿပီး ကြ်န္ေတာ္က သူမကုိ ညစ္ညမ္းတဲ ့စကားလံုး
အခ်ဴိ ့ေဒါသအေလွ်ာက္သံုးခဲ ့မိတာနဲ ့ပထမဦးဆံုးအႀကိမ္ သူမရဲ ့ကြန္ဖူးပညာစြမ္းကုိ ၿမည္းစမ္း
လုိက္ခဲ ့ရတာပါပဲ....” လုိ ့သူကဆုိခဲ ့ပါတယ္...

သူ ့အေနနဲ ့အခုလုိမိန္းမၿဖစ္သူရဲ ့ ပညာစြမ္းကုိ မႀကာခဏ ၿမည္းစမ္းခြင္ ့မႀကဳံရေလေအာင္၊ စကား
မမ်ားပဲေနနုိင္ဖုိ ့အႀကိမ္ႀကိမ္ႀကဳိးစားခဲ ့ေပမယ္ ့စကားနုိင္လုတုိင္း မရွဳံးေအာင္ေၿပာဆုိၿငင္းခံုမိတာ
ေႀကာင္ ့သူ ့ခမ်ာ တစ္ကုိယ္လံုးဒါဏ္ရာဒါဏ္ခ်က္ေတြနဲ ့ပဲ အဆံုးသတ္ခဲ ့ရတာပါပဲ...
အခုေတာ ့သူ ့မိန္းမရဲ ့စကားမ်ားတုိင္း စိတ္တုိ၊ေဒါသထြက္လုိ ့ေၿခလြန္၊လက္လြန္လုပ္တတ္မွဳေတြ
ကုိ ထိန္းခ်ဴပ္ဖုိ ့အတြက္ မစၥတာက်န္း တစ္ေယာက္ သူ ့ေယာကၡမေတြေရွ ့မွာပဲ အခုလုိ ႏွစ္ဦးသ
ေဘာတူ စည္းကမ္းစာခ်ဴပ္ လုပ္ဖုိ ့စဥ္းစားစီစဥ္ခဲ့တာၿဖစ္ပါတယ္...

သေဘာတူညီခ်က္အရ အကယ္၍ သူ ့မိန္းမအေနနဲ ့စာခ်ဴပ္ပါစည္းကမ္းကုိခ်ဴိးေဖာက္မိခဲ ့ရင္
( တစ္ပါတ္အတြင္း သူ ့ကုိ တစ္ႀကိမ္မက ထုိးႀကိတ္ခဲ ့ယင္ ) သူမဟာ သူမရဲ ့မိဘမ်ားေနအိမ္
မွာသံုးရက္ႀကာ သြားေရာက္ေနထုိင္ရမွာၿဖစ္ပါတယ္...
သူမဟာ သူမရဲ ့မိဘေတြကုိေတာ ့အလြန္ရုိေသေလးစားပါတယ္....ကြ်န္ေတာ ့ရဲ ့ေယာကၡမေတြ
ကလည္းကြ်န္ေတာ ့ကုိ အားေပးေထာက္ခံၿပီး သူမကုိသာၿပစ္တင္ဆူပူႀကပါတယ္လုိ ့သူက်ဆက္
ေၿပာၿပပါတယ္...


သူ ့ရဲ ့ဇနီးၿဖစ္သူကလည္း သူမအေနနဲ ့ေယာက်ာၤးၿဖစ္သူကုိေနာက္ေန ့မွာ ထုိးႀကိတ္ထားလုိ ့မ်က္
လံုးေတြအညဳိအမဲစြဲေနတာၿမင္ရယင္ အၿမဲတမ္း ေနာင္တရမိပါတယ္လုိ ့ဆုိပါတယ္......
အခုေတာ ့ႏွစ္ဦးသေဘာတူနားလည္မွဳယူထားတဲ ့စည္းကမ္းရွိေနၿပီမုိ ့ေနာင္ဆုိအႀကမ္းမဖက္မိ
ဖို ့ကုိယ္ ့ကုိယ္ကုိအတင္းထိန္းခ်ဴပ္ရေတာ ့မွာပါပဲ လုိ ့သူမကဆက္ေၿပာၿပခဲ ့ပါတယ္...

အမ်ဴိးသားၿဖစ္သူ မစၥတာက်န္း ရဲ ့မိဘေတြကေတာ ့ သူတုိ ့ရဲ ့သားၿဖစ္သူအေနနဲ ့မိန္းမရဲ ့အနုိင္
က်င္ ့မွဳကုိ ခံရတတ္ေပမယ္ ့သူတုိ ့စံုတြဲဟာ ေရွ ့သြားေနာက္လုိက္ညီႀကပါတယ္...
သူတုိ ့အေနနဲ ့အိမ္ေထာင္ရွင္ေကာင္းေတြၿဖစ္ႀကတာမုိ ့ဘာမွထပ္ေၿပာေနစရာမရွိပါဘူးလို ့အဆုိ
ပါသတင္းစာကုိ ေၿပာၿပခဲ ့တယ္လုိ ့ဆုိပါတယ္....
သူတုိ ့ရဲ ့သေဘာတူညီမွဳစာခ်ဴပ္ပါစည္းကမ္းအတုိင္းေရာ သူ ့ဇနီးကလုိက္နာနုိင္ပါ ့မလားဆုိ
ေတာ ့....
ၿဖစ္နုိင္ပါတယ္....သူဒီလုိ ထုိးႀကိတ္ကန္ေက်ာက္ခံေနရေပမယ္ ့သူ ့ဇနီးၿဖစ္သူကုိေတာ ့ခ်စ္
ေနတံုးပါပဲလုိ ့ မစၥတာက်န္းက ဆုိခဲ ့ပါတယ္...

အရုိးကဲြေအာင္ရုိက္မွ အသည္းစြဲေအာင္ခ်စ္တယ္ဆုိတာ ဒီၿဖစ္ရပ္မွန္ဇတ္လမ္းမွာလည္းမွန္ေန
ၿပန္ေရာပဲေနာ္....
ကုိယ္ ့ဆရာေတြလည္းမယူခင္ အမ်ဴိးသမီးက ခါးပါတ္နက္လားဆုိတာ ေသခ်ာစံုစမ္းထားေနာ္...
နုိ ့မုိ ့ဆုိ မ်က္ကြင္းညဳိနဲ ့ပန္ဒါ ၀က္၀ံၿဖစ္ေနရဦးမယ္...


သတင္းစာမွာေတာ ့ဒီိလုိေဖာ္ၿပထားေလရဲ ့ဗ်ာ....

A Chinese man has signed a contract with his wife that entitles her to attack him once a week.

The 32-year-old man, who was named by the Chongqing Evening News as Mr Zhang, took the unusual step after suffering intense abuse from his wife, who studies kung fu.
"I don't want to beat him, but arguments are inevitable and I can't help myself," his wife told the newspaper. She added that in the week before they signed the deal, she had beaten him up three times.

Mr Zhang said his wife, who is a sales manager at a trading company, had studied kung fu since her childhood and that he was attracted to her "strong and independent temperament".
He also admitted that he had suffered at her hands throughout their six-month courtship. "Before we got married, she had a wild hairstyle and I teased that it made her look like a tigress. During the argument that followed, I said some bad words and I got a taste of her kung fu for the first time."

He said that he had tried to bite his lip in order to avoid being punished, but that he "never wants to lose an argument" and so always ends up with "bruises and scars all over".
In order to curb his wife's aggression, Mr Zhang proposed signing a contract in front of his in-laws. If his wife breaches the contract, she has to return to her parents' home for three days. "She is very obedient to her parents, and her parents will support me and blame her," he said.

His wife said that she always feels regret when she sees her husband with a black eye. "Now that we have a contract, I will force myself to drop the use of force," she said.
Mr Zhang's parents told the newspaper that although they felt bad that their son was regularly attacked, the couple were a good match. "They have a good marriage, so we can say nothing about it," said his father.

Will the contract work? Apparently, it doesn’t matter because Zhang says, “Despite all the beatings, I still love her.”

2 comments:

Unknown said...

သတိထားေပမွပဲ..။ အရပ္ရပ္အျပည္ျပည္ ၾကားလို႔မွမေတာ္.. :)

ျမစ္က်ဳိးအင္း said...

သူလည္း တခုခု ျပန္သင္ထားေပါ့ ဂ်ဴဒိုပဲျဖစ္ျဖစ္

ထင္တာေတာ့ ေယာက်ာၤးျဖစ္သူလည္း ျပန္နိင္တဲ့ အလွည့္လည္း ရိွအံုးမွာပါေလ း)