The bravest man in Britain? Expectant dad about to marry a woman who has FIFTEEN children with the husband she's just divorced

အဂၤလန္က သတၱအရွိဆံုး၊ ပခံုးအေကာင္းဆံုးအာဂေယာက်ာၤး .....

ဂ်ဴိအန္း၀ပ္ဆင္ ကုိႀကည္ ့လုိက္လွ်င္ သူမဟာ ၁၆ ေယာက္ေၿမာက္ရင္ေသြးကုိ လြယ္ထားရသည္ ့ကုိယ္၀န္
၅ လရွိသူတစ္ဦးလို ့ပင္မထင္ရေပ...
သူမရဲ ့ခံုၿမင္ ့ဖိနပ္ႏွင္ ့ဆုိက္ဒ္နံပါတ္ ၄ ဂ်င္းေဘာင္းဘီအေသးေလးကုိ၀တ္ၿပီး အသာေလးသြားလာေနတတ္
ပါေသးသည္....သူမမိတ္ကပ္ကလည္း သာမာန္မွ်ပင္...ဆံပင္မ်ားကလည္း ဖရိုဖရဲမၿဖစ္...
၀တ္ဆင္ထားသည္ ့ဘေလာက္စ္အကၤ် ီေလးကုိ မ လိုက္ေတာ ့သူမရဲ ့ကုိယ္၀န္ေဆာင္ဗိုက္ကလည္းခ်ပ္ခ်ပ္
ကေလးပင္...ယခင္သားသမီးမ်ားေမြးခဲ ့ရာတြင္ အမ်ဴိးသမီးမ်ားရတတ္သည္ ့ဗုိက္ေႀကာၿပတ္ရာပင္ တစ္ခ်က္
ကေလးမွ်မရွိ...
သူမအေနႏွင္ ့ယခုကဲ ့သုိ ့အသားအေရမ်ားမတြန္ ့တာဘာေႀကာင္ ့လဲဟုေမးေတာ ့ေမးသူကုိပင္ ရူးမ်ားေန
သလားဟု သူမကၿပန္ႀကည္ ့ေနခဲ ့ေလေသးသည္...

အစားမေတာ္တစ္လုတ္၊ အသြားမေတာ္တစ္လွမ္း...အားလံုးဒူးမနာသားသမီးေတြခ်ည္းပဲ...

တစ္ခါေလးမွားမိပါတယ္...ကေလးဆယ္ ့ငါးေယာက္မိခင္နဲ ့ၿငိခဲ ့မိသူ...

Full house: Joanne Watson and her fiance Craig Le Sauvage (centre) with her children who still live at home

" ကြ်န္မကေတာ ့ကုိယ္၀န္ရွိေနလည္း မရွိစဥ္ကထက္ဘာမွပုိထူးၿပီးမခံစားရပါဘူး..." လုိ ့ၿပဳံးေပ်ာ္ေနသည္ ့

အသက္ ၃၉ ႏွစ္အရြယ္ရွိ ဂ်ဴိအန္း ကသူမရဲ ့သပ္ရပ္လွသည္ ့ဂန္းေဆးအရပ္ရွိ အိပ္ခန္းေလးခန္းပါသည္ ့ေန

အိမ္တြင္ေၿပာႀကားခဲ ့ပါတယ္...

" ဒီလိုပဲၿဖစ္သြားတာပါပဲ...ဘာမွေၿပာပေလာက္တဲ ့ကိစၥႀကီးႀကီးက်ယ္က်ယ္မွမဟုတ္တာ...ၿပီးယင္နဂုိအေန

နဲ ့အပ်ဴိရည္မပ်က္သလုိပါပဲ...ကုိယ္၀န္ေဆာင္ရတာကုိ ကြ်န္မကေတာ ့ႀကဳိက္ကုိႀကဳိက္ေနမိတာပါပဲ...ကြ်န္

မမွာ ကေလးေမြးဖုိ ့ကုိ ခြန္အားေတြရွိေနတာပါပဲ...ဘယ္ေတာ ့မွ အားအင္ကုန္ခန္းသြားတယ္ဆုိတာမရွိသ

လိုပါပဲ..." လုိ ့သူမကေၿပာၿပခဲ ့ပါတယ္...

ဂ်ဴိအန္း ကယခုလိုရွင္းၿပေနစဥ္မွာပင္ ကုိယ္၀န္ေဆာင္ထားစဥ္မွာေရာ မီးဖြားၿပီးရာမွာပင္ သူမအေနႏွင္ ့၀

လာၿခင္း၊ ခႏၶာကုိယ္အေလးခ်ိန္တက္လာၿခင္းမ်ားမရွိပဲ နာမည္ေက်ာ္အႏုပညာရွင္သားသည္မိခင္မ်ားလုိပင္

ႏုပ်ဴိဆဲ၊ သြယ္လ်ေနဆဲပင္...

သုိ ့ေသာ္ အားကစားမလုပ္၊ အားကစားဆရာမေခၚရပါပဲႏွင္ ့ယခုကဲ ့သုိသြယ္လ်ေနရသည္ကေတာ ့သူမအ

အေနႏွင္ ့အစာအဟာရကုိ ခ်င္ ့ခ်ိန္ၿပီးစားခဲ ့လုိ ့ၿဖစ္ပါတယ္တဲ ့...

အငယ္ဆံုးကေလးမ်ားပင္ ၄ ႏွစ္၊ ၃ ႏွစ္ ႏွင္ ့၂၂ လသားမ်ားၿဖစ္ၿပီး သားသမီးတစ္အုပ္ႀကီးအားထိမ္းေက်ာင္း
ၿပဳစုခဲ ့ရသည္ ့ေၿခကုန္လက္ပန္းက်ေလာက္ဖြယ္မိခင္ၿဖစ္သူတစ္ဦးအေနႏွင့္ယခုကဲ ့သုိ ့ႏုပ်ဴိေနရၿခင္းက ဘာ
ေႀကာင္ ့မ်ားပါလိမ္ ့ဟု ေတြးေတာစရာပင္....
တစ္ပါတ္တစ္ပါတ္ခ်က္ရၿပဳတ္ရ၊ ေလွ်ာ္ရဖြပ္ရတာမ်ားအတြက္ကား သူမအေနႏွင္ ့ေအးရာေအးေႀကာင္းပင္..
အႀကိမ္ေပါင္းမေရမတြက္နုိင္ေလာက္ေအာင္ကေလးမ်ားအႏွီးလဲေပးရၿခင္းကလည္းသူမအတြက္ က်င္ ့သား
ရေနခဲ ့ၿပီးသား...ကေလးမ်ား ေအာ္ဟစ္ဆူပူၿခင္းမ်ားကား မမွဳစရာ...အရာရာအားလံုးအတြက္ သူမအေန
ၿဖင္ ့စနစ္တစ္က်ႀကဳိတင္ၿပင္ဆင္ၿပီးသားပါဟု သူမကဆုိပါေသးသည္...

ယခု ၁၆ေယာက္ေၿမာက္ သေႏၶရွိၿခင္းကသာလွ်င္သူမအတြက္ အနည္းငယ္ၿခားနားေနခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
ယခင္ရင္ေသြးမ်ားအားလံုး ေရႊ၀ါေရာင္ဆံပင္ေလးမ်ားခ်ည္းၿဖစ္ခဲ ့ႀကလို ့ယခုကုိယ္၀န္ၿဖင္ ့လာမည္ ့ႏွစ္ မတ္
လတြင္ဖြားၿမင္မည္ ့ရင္ေသြးေလးကုိေတာ ့ဆံပင္အနက္ကေလးႏွင္ ့ၿဖစ္ေစခ်င္မိေနပါတယ္...
အေၿပာင္းအလဲေလးေတာ ့ၿဖင္ ့ၿဖစ္လိမ္ ့မည္ဟုေမွ်ာ္လင္ ့ရတာပါပဲ...

အယင္ေယာက်ာၤးနဲ ့ရတဲ ့သားႀကီးသမီးႀကီးေတြ...သူတုိ ့ေတာင္ သူတုိ ့အုိးသူတုိ ့အိမ္ေတြနဲ ့ခဲြထြက္ကုန္

ႀကၿပီ...ကေလးေတြေတာင္ရႀကၿပီ....

First born: Joanne's eldest children Shanice,18, Bradley, 20, and Natasha, 21, have all moved out

ဂ်ဴိအန္း ဟာ အသက္ ၄၅ ႏွစ္ရွိ ခင္ပြန္းၿဖစ္သူႏွင္ ့လြန္ခဲ ့ေသာ ၂ ႏွစ္ အငယ္ဆံုးကေလး အင္ဒီယားနား က
ေလး ကုိကိုယ္၀န္ ၇ လနဲ ့ရွိေနစဥ္မွာပဲ ကြာရွင္းၿပတ္စဲခဲ ့တာၿဖစ္ပါတယ္...
သူမတုိ ့ရဲ ့၂၂ ႏွစ္တာအိမ္ေထာင္သက္ရဲ ့ကာလတစ္၀က္နီးပါး သူမအၿမဲပဲကိုယ္၀န္ေဆာင္ေနခဲ ့ရၿပီး အံ ့စ
ရာ အိမ္ေထာင္ရွင္မိခင္ ဆုိတဲ ့ေခါင္းစဥ္ၿဖင္ ့ခင္ပြန္းၿဖစ္သူ ဂြ်န္ႏွင္ ့အေဖတူ၊ အေမတူ ကေလးမ်ားႏွင့္အတူ
ဓါတ္ပံုအရုိက္ခံၿပီး သတင္းစာမ်ားမွာ အထူးတစ္လည္ေဖၚၿပၿခင္းကုိ ပံုမွန္ခံခဲ ့ရပါတယ္...
သုိ ့ေသာ္လည္း အၿပင္ပန္းအေနၿဖင္ ့သာယာႀကည္ႏူးဖြယ္ဟုထင္ရသည္ ့သူမတုိ ့ရဲ ့အိမ္ေထာင္ေရးမွာ
လည္း အႀကီးအက်ယ္ၿငင္းခုံရ၊ ရန္ၿဖစ္ရတာေတြရွိခဲ ့တာပါပဲ...

ခင္ပြန္းၿဖစ္သူ ဂြ်န္က ကုန္ပစၥည္းသယ္ယူပုိ ့ေဆာင္ေရးသမားအၿဖစ္ တစ္ခ်ိန္လံုးအလုပ္လုပ္ေနခဲ ့ရလုိ ့သူ
တုိ ့ႏွစ္ဦးဟာတစ္ေယာက္ကုိတစ္ေယာက္ ဂရုမစုိက္ႏုိင္ေတာ့ဘူးလို ့ခံစားခဲ ့ရပါတယ္...
ထုိမွစၿပီး သူမရဲ ့အိမ္ေထာင္ေရးယုိယြင္းလာလို ့သူမဟာ အရက္ေတြအလြန္အကြ်ံေသာက္ခဲ ့ရတာပါလို ့ဆုိ
ခဲ ့ၿပီး ဂြ်န္ကေတာ ့ထုိစြပ္စဲခ်က္ကုိၿငင္းဆုိခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
ေနာက္ဆံုးသူမတုိ ့အိမ္ေထာင္ေရး ၂၀၀၈ ခုႏွစ္မွာၿပဳိကဲြခဲ ့ေတာ ့ဂ်ဴိအန္းတစ္ေယာက္ အင္ဒီယာနာေလး
ဟာသူမအတြက္ေနာက္ဆံုးရင္ေသြးၿဖစ္ၿပီး ဖခင္မရွိတဲ ့ရင္ေသြးေတြကုိႀကည္ ့ရွဳေစာင္ ့ေရွာက္သည္ ့တစ္
ကိုယ္ေရမိခင္အၿဖစ္နဲ ့ေရာ သမီးအႀကီးဆံုးရဲ ့သားႏွစ္ေယာက္တုိ ့ရဲ ့အဘြားအၿဖစ္ပါ ဘ၀ကုိၿမဳပ္ႏွံေတာ ့မယ္
လို ့စိတ္ဆံုးၿဖတ္ခဲ ့ပါတယ္...

သုိ ့ေသာ္လည္း လြန္ခဲ ့တဲ ့ဇြန္လမွာေတာ ့သူမဟာ အပန္းေၿဖဌာနတစ္ခုရဲ ့အခမ္းအနားပဲြမွာ တာ၀န္ယူစီ
စဥ္သူ အသက္ ၃၄ ႏွစ္ရွိ၊ လြန္ခဲ ့သည္ ့၁၅ ႏွစ္ သူမ ကေလး ၄ ေယာက္မိခင္ဘ၀ ငယ္စဥ္ကာလက အိမ္
နီးခ်င္းၿဖစ္ခဲ ့သူ ကရိတ္လီဆုိေဗ ့ဂ်္ နွင္ ့ခ်စ္ကြ်မ္း၀င္ခဲ ့ၿပန္ပါေတာ ့တယ္....
အစေတာ ့ဒီလိုေတြ ့ႀကတာဟာ ေႏြရာသီအပန္းေၿဖ ခ်စ္ခရီးတုိေလးဖြင္ ့ႀကတယ္လို ့ပဲရည္ရြယ္ခဲ ့တာပါ...
၎အေနႏွင္ ့လည္းဤကဲ ့သို ့ထင္မွတ္ေတြးေတာခဲ ့မွာၿဖစ္ေပမယ္ ့သူတုိ ့ႏွစ္ဦးခ်စ္ရည္လူးၿပီးေနာက္ သံုး
ပါတ္အႀကာမွာေတာ ့ဂ်ဴိအန္းေရာ ကရိတ္ ပါအံ ့အားသင္ ့စရာအၿဖစ္ သူမမွာကိုယ္၀န္ရွိေနခဲ ့တာၿဖစ္ပါ
တယ္...

ယေန ့ေတာ ့သူတုိ ့ႏွစ္ဦးဟာ ေစ ့စပ္ခဲ ့ႀကလို ့ကရိတ္အေနနဲ ့၎ဘ၀အတြက္ပထမဦးအႀကိမ္အၿဖစ္ က
ေလးအေဖၿဖစ္ရေတာ ့မည္ ့အၿပင္ ဂ်ဴိအန္းရဲ ့ဧရာမရင္ေသြးအုပ္ႀကီးအတြက္ ပေထြးအၿဖစ္ ႀကဳိးစားရုန္းကန္
ရဦးမည္ ့အေၿခအေနၿဖစ္ခဲ ့ရပါေတာ ့တယ္...
ဒါေႀကာင္ ့၎ရဲ ့ဇနီးၿဖစ္သူနွင္ ့အတူထုိင္ၿပီး သူ ့ဘ၀ရဲ ့အလွည္ ့အေၿပာင္းအတြက္ ပထမဦးဆံုးအႀကိမ္ေၿပာ
ဆုိေနမည္ ့သူ ့ကုိ မီးေရာင္ၿမင္မိလို ့အမိခံလိုက္ရတဲ ့ယုန္သူငယ္လို ဘယ္သူကမ်ားအၿပစ္တင္နုိင္ႀကဦးမွာ
လည္း...

ကြ်န္ေတာ္လား...ေပ်ာ္ပါတယ္ခင္ဗ်ာ....အယင္ေယာက်ာၤးနဲ ့၇တဲ ့ကေလးက ဆယ္ေယာက္ေတာင္

ဆုိေတာ ့အဲဒီလူကုိေက်းဇူးေတာင္တင္ေနေသးတယ္...( သူ ့မ်က္ႏွာႀကည္ ့ရတာနဲ ့တင္

သေဘာေပါက္ေလာက္ပါတယ္...)

Happy families: Joanne at home with ten of her children and expectant dad Craig

တစ္ကုိယ္ေရတစ္ကာယထဲသာေနသည္ ့မည္သည္ ့ေယာက်ာၤးမဆုိ ထုိအေၿခအေနမွ တစ္လလွ်င္ ေပါင္စ

တာလင္ ၁၃၄၀ ( ေဒၚလာ ၂၀၀၀ ေက်ာ္ ) ကုန္က်မည္ ့မိသားစုႀကီးရဲ ့တာ၀န္ကုိရုတ္တစ္ရက္ထမ္းဖို ့က

ေတာ ့ဘယ္ေလာက္ပဲ ခ်စ္ေနပါေစ ဆႏၵရွိမွာမဟုတ္တာေသခ်ာပါတယ္...

ၿပီးေတာ ့ထုိကေလးေတြအားလံုးကလည္း သူတုိ ့ရဲ ့ဖခင္အရင္းကုိပဲ ခ်စ္ခင္ႀကမွာၿဖစ္ပါတယ္...
ဒါေပမယ္ ့ကရိတ္ ကေတာ ့ဂ်ဴိအန္းနဲ ့အတူတူမေနရေသးလို ့သူ ့အေနနဲ ့ဘယ္လိုအေၿခအေနေတြ၊ အခက္
အခဲေတြရွိေနမယ္ဆုိတာမသိနုိင္ေသးေပမယ္ ့ထုိမနုိင္၀န္ႀကီးကုိ ထမ္းဖို ့ရဲ၀ံ ့စြာနဲ ့ဆံုးၿဖတ္လိုက္ပါတယ္....
ခရစ္ယာန္ဘာသာအရ အထူးသက္၀င္ယံုႀကည္လြန္းလို ့တရားေပါက္သူလို ့ပင္ဆုိနုိင္တဲ ့ကရိတ္ ကေတာ ့
သူတုိ ့ႏွစ္ဦးလက္မထပ္ရေသးပဲ သူ ့အေနနွင္ ့ဂ်ဴိအန္းနဲ ့ေရာ သူမႏွင္ ့လက္ရွိအတူတစ္ကြေနထုိင္ႀကတဲ ့
သားသမီး ၁၁ ဦးႏွင္ ့ပါ အတူေၿပာင္းေရြ ့ေနထုိင္ဖုိ ့မရည္ရြယ္ေသးပါဘူး....
၎အေနနွင္ ့သူႏွင္ ့ရသည္ ့ကေလးကုိ တရား၀င္အိမ္ေထာင္ၿပဳအၿပီးမွာေမြးတာၿဖစ္ခ်င္လုိ ့လက္ထပ္ပဲြက
ေတာ ့ရင္ေသြးေလးမေမြးခင္ၿဖစ္လိမ္ ့မယ္လို ့ေမွ်ာ္လင္ ့ထားႀကပါတယ္...

ဂ်ဴိအန္းတစ္ေယာက္ သူမရဲ ့သားသမီးမ်ားၿဖစ္တဲ ့ အသက္ ၂၁ ႏွစ္ရွိ နာတာရွာ၊ အသက္ ၂၀ ရွိ ဘရက္ဒ
ေလ၊ အသက္ ၁၈ ႏွစ္ရွိ ရွနုိက္စ္၊ ( ထုိသူမ်ားအားလံုးအိမ္ခဲြေနႀကၿပီးၿဖစ္ ) အသက္ ၁၅ ႏွစ္ရွိ မာရီယာ၊
အသက္ ၁၃ ႏွစ္ရွိ ေဂ်ာဂ်ီယာ၊ အသက္ ၁၁ ႏွစ္ရွိ ကိုက္တလင္း၊ အသက္ ၁၀ႏွစ္ရွိ ဘရစ္တနီ၊ အသက္ ၉
ႏွစ္ရွိ ဖယ္ဘီယန္၊ အသက္ ၈ ႏွစ္ရွိ ခ်ာလီ၊ အသက္ ၇ ႏွစ္ရွိလီလီနဲ ့အာနာ၊ အသက္ ၆ ႏွစ္ရွိ နာရီလီနဲ ့
ဂ်ိတ္ဒ္၊ အသက္ ၄ ႏွစ္ရွိ အာမနီ၊ အသက္ ၃ ႏွစ္ရွိ တာလူလာ၊ နဲ ့၂၂ လသမီး အင္ဒီယားနာ တုိ ့ကုိရြတ္ၿပ
ေတာ ့ကရိတ္တစ္ေယာက္ မွတ္မိဖုိ ့ႀကဳိးစားရမွာနဲ ့တင္ေခြ်းၿပန္ေလာက္ပါတယ္...
ဒါေတာင္ ဂ်ဴိအန္းရဲ ့စတုတၱေၿမာက္ကေလး ႀသဂတ္စတင္းဟာ လမေစ ့ပဲေမြးဖြားခဲ ့ၿပီး နာရီ ၂၀အႀကာမွာ
ေသဆံုးသြားခဲ ့ပါေသးတယ္...
ၿပီးေတာ ့နာတာရွာမွာ အသက္ ၅ ႏွစ္အရြယ္သားတစ္ေယာက္ရွိၿပီး ရွနုိက္စ္ ရဲ ့သားေလးကလည္း ၁၄ လ
သားအရြယ္ေရာက္ေနပါၿပီ...
ဒါေႀကာင္ ့ကရိတ္ကအေနနဲ ့မရြယ္ပဲ ထုိကေလးေတြရဲ ့ပေထြးဘုိးဘုိးႀကီးလည္းၿဖစ္ေနပါလိမ္ ့ဦးမယ္...
အင္း ....အာဂသတၱရွင္ သူရဲေကာင္းႀကီး ကရိတ္အတြက္ ႀကဳိတင္စိတ္ကူးမယဥ္ခဲ ့တာေသခ်ာတဲ ့အေၿခ
အေနပါပဲ....

" လြန္ခဲ ့တဲ ့၁၅ ႏွစ္ သူမႏွင္ ့ကြ်န္ေတာ္အိမ္နီးခ်င္းေတြၿဖစ္ခဲ ့စဥ္က ဂ်ဴိအန္းကုိပထမဦးဆံုးစတင္ေတြ ့တံုးက

သူမဟာဘယ္ေလာက္ႀကည္ ့ေကာင္းၿပီး ကုိယ္ေနဟန္ဘယ္ေလာက္အခ်ဴိးက်သလဲလုိ ့အၿမဲပဲေတြးေနခဲ ့မိ

ပါတယ္..." လုိ ့ကရိတ္ကေၿပာၿပခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
" အဲဒီေနာက္ဒီနွစ္မွာေတာ ့သူမဟာ ကြ်န္ေတာ္အလုပ္လုပ္တဲ ့အပန္းေၿဖဌာနကုိလာေရာက္ေလ ့ရွိတာမုိ ့
သူမကုိ နွဳတ္ဆက္စကားဆုိခဲ ့မိပါတယ္... သူမအေနနဲ ့အရြယ္တင္ႏုပ်ဴိေနဆဲ၊ ႀကည္ ့ေကာင္းေနဆဲမုိ ့စိတ္
လွဳပ္ရွားခဲ ့ရပါေတာ ့တယ္... တစ္ညေနေတာ ့ ကြ်န္ေတာ္ကားေမာင္းၿပီးအိမ္ၿပန္မလုိ ့လုပ္ေနတံုး သူမက
ကားကုိတားကာ တစ္ေယာက္ေယာက္နဲ ့မ်ားဘာညာဘာညာရွိေနလားလို ့ကြ်န္ေတာ ့ကုိေမးလာပါတယ္...
ဟင္ ့အင္းလို ့ကြ်န္ေတာ္ကေၿပာေတာ ့ ဒါဆုိ တုိ ့မ်ားကုိ အေအးေလးဘာေလးတုိက္ဖုိ ့စိတ္ကူးမရွိဘူးလား
လို ့သူမက ဆုိလာခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
အဲဒီေနာက္သူမရဲ ့ဖုံးနံပါတ္ကုိ ကြ်န္ေတာ္ယူထားလုိက္ၿပီးေနာက္ေန ့မွာပဲ ဖံုးနဲ ့စာရုိက္ပုိ ့ခဲ ့တာပါပဲ...
ကြ်န္ေတာ္ကေတာ ့သူမကုိ အၿမဲတမ္းခ်စ္စရာေကာင္းေနတယ္လုိ ့ပဲ ၿမင္ေနမိတယ္...သူမမွာ ကေလးေတြ
အမ်ားႀကီးရွိတာကုိလည္းသိပါတယ္... သူမအေႀကာင္းေတြကိုသတင္းစာေတြထဲမွာလည္းဖတ္မိပါတယ္...
ၿပီးေတာ ့သူမေယာက်ာၤးနဲ ့ကြာရွင္းၿပတ္စဲခဲ ့တယ္ဆုိတာလည္း ႀကားခဲ ့မိပါတယ္...
အရုိးသားဆံုး၀န္ခံရယင္ေတာ ့ပထမအစမွာ သူမကုိအေလးအနက္မထားပဲ အေပ်ာ္သေဘာနဲ ့တဲြခဲ ့၊ ခ်ိန္း
ေတြ ့ခဲ ့တာပါ...ဒါေပမယ္ ့ေတြ ့ၿပီး သံုးပါတ္အႀကာမွာ သူမက ကုိယ္၀န္ရွိေနၿပီလို ့ေၿပာလုိက္လို ့ေတာ္ေတာ္
ကိုအံ ့ႀသတုန္လွဳပ္သြားခဲ ့ရပါတယ္...
အစေတာ့ေတာ္ေတာ္ေလးလည္းရွက္သြားမိၿပီး လူေတြေတာ ့ေၿပာေတာ ့မွာပဲလို ့လည္းပူပန္မိပါတယ္...
ဒါေပမယ္ ့အခုေတာ ့လည္းစိတ္ေၿပာင္းသြားခဲ ့ရပါၿပီ....ဂ်ဴိအန္းဟာ ခ်စ္စရာေကာင္းသူပါ...မိခင္ေကာင္း
တစ္ေယာက္လည္းၿဖစ္ပါတယ္...ကြ်န္ေတာ္က ငယ္စဥ္ကတည္းက မိခင္နဲ ့အေနမနီးခဲ ့သူမုိ ့ကေလးဘ၀
ဟာ ေပ်ာ္ရႊင္ဖြယ္မၿဖစ္ခဲ ့ရပါဘူး...ဒါေႀကာင္ ့အဲဒီအခ်က္ကလည္းအေရးႀကီးပါတယ္...
ငါသာေပ်ာ္ရႊင္ေနမယ္ဆုိယင္ တစ္ၿခားသူေတြဘယ္လိုထင္ထင္အေရးမႀကီးပါဘူးလို ့လည္းကြ်န္ေတာ္စဥ္း
စားမိခဲ ့တာၿဖစ္ပါတယ္...
ကြ်န္ေတာ္တုိ ့ေတြ ့ဆံုခဲ ့တာဘာမွမႀကာေသးေပမယ္ ့သူမကုိတစ္ကယ္ပဲ အရမ္းခ်စ္ပါတယ္.... အခုေတာ ့
သူမ မရွိတဲ ့ဘ၀ဆုိတာ စဥ္းေတာင္မစဥ္းစာရဲေတာ ့ပါဘူး...ရင္ထဲမွာတစ္ကယ္ပဲခံစားရပါတယ္.." လို ့သူ
ကေၿပာၿပခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
ကရိတ္ဟာ ယခုကအေစာပိုင္းကပဲ သူမရဲ ့ကြာရွင္းၿပတ္စဲမွဳကိစၥအ၀၀ၿပီးၿပတ္လို ့သံုးရက္အႀကာမွာ စိန္ ့ပီ
တာဆိပ္ကမ္းရဲ ့သံတုိင္ေတြမွာတဲြခုိၿပီး အကယ္၍သူမအေနနဲ ့သူ ့ရဲ ့ေတာင္းဆုိခ်က္ကုိ လက္မခံ၊ မလုိက္
ေလ်ာယင္ သူမကုိေရထဲပစ္ခ်မယ္ဆုိၿပီး က်ည္စယ္ကာဂ်ဴိအန္းကုိလက္ထပ္ဖုိ ့ေတာင္းဆုိခဲ ့တာၿဖစ္ပါတယ္..
ဒါေႀကာင္ ့သူဟာ တစ္ကယ္ ့ကုိအေလးအနက္ထားေနတာအမွန္ပါပဲ...
" ကြ်န္ေတာ္က ကေလးေတြရဲ ့ပေထြးၿဖစ္ရေတာ ့မွာအတြက္စိတ္လွဳပ္ရွားေနမိတာအမွန္ပါပဲ...သူတုိ ့ေလး
ေတြဟာလည္းတစ္ကယ္ ့ကုိ ေတာ္ႀကပါတယ္...ကြ်န္ေတာ္ကသူတုိ ့ဖခင္ေနရာကုိအစားယူမွာမဟုတ္ပါဘူး။
သူတုိ ့မွာ ဖခင္အရင္းဆုိတာရွိၿပီးသားမုိ ့ သူငယ္ခ်င္းမိတ္ေဆြဆုိတာေလာက္ပဲ ေမွ်ာ္လင္ ့ပါတယ္..." လို ့သူ
ကေၿပာႀကားခဲ ့ပါတယ္...

ခ်စ္မိေလေသာအခါ...
ႀကြက္ၿပင္းလုိ ့ပဲဆုိဆုိ...ဘာကုိမွမၿမင္နုိင္ေတာ ့ဘူးေပါ ့...
So in love: Craig is about to become a step-grandfather

ဥႆဖယားနဲ ့စိန္ေတြကြပ္ထားတဲ ့ေစ ့စပ္လက္စပ္ကုိၿပၿပီး ဂ်ဴိအန္းကေတာ ့ လြန္ခဲ ့တဲ ့နွစ္ေတြတံုးက ကြ်န္
မတုိ ့အိမ္ေဘးမွာ ကရိတ္ေနခဲ ့စဥ္ကတည္းက သူဟာ လူေတာ္လူေကာင္းတစ္ေယာက္လို ့ကြ်န္မ ေတြးထင္
ခဲ ့တာဟာအခု ခ်စ္သူေတြၿဖစ္ေတာ ့မွ သူကြ်န္မကုိ ေကာင္းေကာင္းမြန္မြန္ဆက္ဆံခဲ ့တာ ေႀကာင္ ့ပိုမွန္
ခဲ ့ပါတယ္...သူဟာႀကင္နာသနားတတ္သူၿဖစ္ၿပီး သူနဲ ့တန္းတူကုိဆက္ဆံပါတယ္လို ့လည္း ႀကြားခဲ ့ပါေသး
တယ္....
" ကြ်န္မသူ ့ကုိအပန္းေၿဖဌာနမွာၿပန္ေတြ ့ေတာ ့သူဟာသိပ္ၿပီး ခ်စ္စရာေကာင္းတာပဲလုိ ့ေတြးမိပါတယ္...
ဒါေႀကာင္ ့သူ ့ကုိကားရပ္နားရာေနရာမွာေတြ ့မိေတာ့အလိုလိုပဲ သူ ့ဆီေၿပးသြားၿပီး စကားစမိခဲ့တာပါပဲ...
အဲဒီကေန အခုအေၿခအေနအထိၿဖစ္လာလိမ္ ့မယ္လို ့ေတာ ့လံုးလံုးမထင္ခဲ ့တာအမွန္ပါပဲ...
မရည္ရြယ္ပဲ ကိုယ္၀န္ရွိသြားခဲ ့ေတာ ့ေတာ္ေတာ္တုန္လွဳပ္သြားခဲ ့မိပါတယ္...
လြန္ခဲ ့တဲ ့ေဖေဖာ္၀ါရီလကပဲ ခြဲစိတ္မွဳေလးလုပ္ခဲ ့လို ့ကြ်န္မၿဖင္ ့အခုလိုလြယ္လြယ္နဲ ့ကိုယ္၀န္ရလိမ္ ့မယ္
လို ့မထင္ခဲ ့ပါဘူး...ဒါေပယ္ ့ကုိယ္၀န္ရွိရွိၿခင္းကုိပဲသိလိုက္ပါတယ္...အရိပ္နိမိတ္ေတြအရမ္းမၿပခင္ကတည္း
ကေပါ ့....
ကြ်န္မက ကုိယ္၀န္ရွိယင္ နွာေခါင္းမွာ အစက္အေၿပာက္ကေလးေတြေပၚလာတတ္တယ္ေလ...ဒါေႀကာင္ ့
ေသခ်ာၿပီဆုိတာသိလုိ ့ကရိတ္ဆီကုိ ဖံုးဆက္ၿပီးေၿပာေတာ ့သူကကြ်န္မကုိ ရူးေနၿပီလားလို ့ေတာင္ေၿပာခဲ ့ပါ
ေသးတယ္...
ဒါေပမယ္ ့ကြ်န္မသိေနပါတယ္...( သူကြ်န္မဆီလာမယ္ဆုိတာ...)
ေနာက္ရက္အနည္းငယ္အႀကာမွာေတာ ့သူဟာ ကိုယ္၀န္ရွိမရွိစမ္းသပ္တဲ ့ကိရိယာနဲ့အတူ ေရာက္လာခဲ ့ပါ
ေတာ ့တယ္...ၿပီးေတာ ့ကြ်န္မတုိ ့ေသခ်ာေအာင္စမ္းသပ္ခဲ ့ႀကပါတယ္..." လို ့သူမကဆုိခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
" ကြ်န္ေတာ္ ၿဖင္ ့အံ ့ႀသထိတ္လန္ ့လြန္းလို ့ႏွလံုးေတာင္တုန္မိပါတယ္...အေၿခအေနဟာ အလြန္ကုိပဲစိန္ေခၚ
မွဳတစ္ရပ္ၿဖစ္လုိ ့အၿဖစ္မွန္ကုိလက္ခံဖုိ ့အခ်ိန္ယူခဲ ့ရပါတယ္...
လူေတြေၿပာစရာၿဖစ္မွာမုိ ့ကြ်န္ေတာ္တုိ ့ႏွစ္ေယာက္ဇတ္လမ္းကိုအဆံုးသတ္လိုက္ယင္ေကာင္းမယ္လို ့ဂ်ဴိ
အန္းကုိေၿပာခဲ ့ပါေသးတယ္...သူမက ကြ်န္ေတာ္သာဆႏၵရွိမယ္ဆုိယင္ကုိယ္၀န္ဖ်က္ခ်ဖုိ ့သေဘာတူခဲ ့ပါ
တယ္...
ဒါေပမယ္ ့ ေနာက္ေတာ ့ကြ်န္ေတာ္ ့စိတ္ေတြၿပန္လည္လာပါေတာ ့တယ္...သူမကုိလည္းကုိယ္၀န္ဖ်က္ခ်ဖုိ ့
ကြ်န္ေတာ္မလိုလာတာမုိ ့သေဘာမတူခဲ ့ပါဘူး...ကြ်န္ေတာ္ဟာဂ်ဴိအန္းနဲ ့သားသမီးတစ္ေယာက္ေလာက္
ရခ်င္ေနတယ္ဆုိတာ သေဘာေပါက္ခဲ ့ပါေတာ ့တယ္...

တစ္ကယ္ေတာ့ လည္းသူမသာ ကေလးထပ္မယူခ်င္ေတာ ့ဘူးလို ့ဆုိခဲ ့ယင္ ကြ်န္ေတာ္သူမကုိထားခဲ ့ၿဖစ္
မွာပါ...
အခုေတာ ့အားလံုးအုိေကေနတာပါပဲ...ဒါေပမယ္ ့ဂ်ဴိအန္းရဲ ့ကေလးေတြအတြက္ေတာ့စဥ္းစားရပါလိမ္ ့ဦး
မယ္....သူတို ့အေမဟာ အခုပဲလူလြတ္ၿဖစ္ၿပီး ေနာက္ခ်က္ၿခင္းဆုိသလိုပဲရည္းစားရရံုတင္မက ကိုယ္၀န္ပါရွိ
ေနခဲ့ၿပီး ဘ၀ေနာက္ေႀကာင္းမေအးခဲ ့တဲ ့လူတစ္ေယာက္ကုိသူတုိ ့ေလးေတြရဲ ့ဘ၀ထဲကုိပါဆဲြေခၚလာခဲ ့တာ
ေလ..." လုိ ့ကရိတ္ကေၿပာၿပခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
သူငယ္စဥ္က ႏွိပ္စက္တဲ ့ကြယ္လြန္သူမိခင္ အီလိန္းေႀကာင္ ့သူဟာမူးယစ္ေဆးစဲြခဲ ့ရပါေသးတယ္လုိ ့လည္း
ကရိတ္ ကေၿပာၿပခဲ ့ပါေသးတယ္...
သူငယ္ရြယ္စဥ္ဆယ္ေက်ာ္သက္ဘ၀က မူးယစ္ေဆး၀ါးလက္၀ယ္ရွိမွဳနဲ ့ခုိးမွဳ ေထာင္နွစ္ခါက်ခဲ့ပါေသးတယ္..
ဒါေပမယ္ ့လြန္ခဲ့တဲ ့ေၿခာက္နွစ္ေလာက္က မူးယစ္ေဆး၀ါးသံုးစဲြသူေတြကုိ ကုသေပးတဲ ့ခရစ္ယာန္အဖဲြ ့အ
စည္းတစ္ခုၿဖစ္တဲ ့မီးၿပတုိက္ကူညီကယ္ဆယ္ေရးေဖာင္ေဒးရွင္းဆီမွာ ေဆးၿဖတ္သင္တန္းတက္ၿပီးကတည္း
က သူဟာမူးယစ္ေဆး၀ါးကုိ လက္ဖ်ားနဲ ့ေတာင္မထိေတာ ့ပါဘူးလို ့လည္း သူကဆုိပါတယ္...

သူဘ၀ဟာ လံုး၀ကုိေၿပာင္းလဲသြားခဲ့တာၿဖစ္ပါတယ္လို ့သူကဆုိပါတယ္...
ကရိတ္ဟာ အတိတ္ကအေႀကာင္းေတြေပၚမွာပဲ တစ္၀ဲလည္လည္ၿဖစ္ေနရတာကုိမႀကဳိက္ပါဘူး...ဒါေပမယ့္
သူ ့ရဲ ့အစ္ကုိကေတာ့ သူတုိ ့ရဲ ့မိခင္ၿဖစ္သူကုိ တာ၀န္၀တၱရားပ်က္ကြက္မွဳနဲ ့၂၀၀၇ ခုႏွစ္မွာ သတ္ၿဖတ္ခဲ ့ၿပီး
အၿပစ္ေပးခံခဲ ့ရတာ လူသိထင္ရွားၿဖစ္ခဲ ့ရပါတယ္...
တရားရံံုးေတာ္ကေတာ ့အသက္ ၄၉ ႏွစ္ရွိတဲ ့မိခင္ၿဖစ္ၿဖစ္သူကုိ လည္ပင္းညွစ္ၿပီးသတ္ခဲ့ခ်ိန္မွာ ထုိသူဟာ
မိခင္ၿဖစ္သူႏွိပ္စက္တဲ ့ဒါဏ္ေႀကာင္ ့စိတ္ေရာဂါေတာင္ရေနခဲ ့ပါတယ္လို ့တရားရံုးမွာေလွ်ာက္ထားထြက္ဆုိ
ခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
ထုိအေႀကာင္းေတြအားလံုးကုိ ဂ်ဴိအန္းအေနနဲ ့သိရွိၿပီးၿဖစ္ေပမယ္ ့ကရိတ္အေနနဲ ့ပေထြးတစ္ေယက္အေန
နဲ ့သူမရဲ ့မိသားစုအေပၚမွာ ၿပႆနာတစ္စံုတစ္ရာရွိလိမ္ ့မယ္လို ့သံသယ လံုး၀မရွိခဲ ့ပါဘူး....
" လူတုိင္းမွာ အတိတ္ဇတ္ေႀကာင္းဆုိတာရွိစၿမဲပါပဲ...ဘယ္သူမွၿပီးၿပည္ ့စံုေအာင္အၿပစ္ကင္းတာမရွိပါဘူး...
ကြ်န္မတုိ ့အားလံုးဟာ ေၿခာက္ၿပစ္ကင္းသဲလဲစင္ေတြမဟုတ္ႀကပါဘူး..." လို ့ဂ်ဴိအန္းကေၿပာဆုိခဲ ့ပါတယ္...

ကရိတ္ဟာ ႀကင္နာသနားတတ္တဲ ့ၿပႆနာအခက္အခဲေတြကုိေက်ာ္လႊားေၿဖရွင္းနုိင္တဲ ့လူႀကီးလူေကာင္း
တစ္ဦးၿဖစ္ပါတယ္...
ကြ်န္မသိသေလာက္ကေတာ ့သူဟာကြ်န္မကုိေလးေလးစားစားဆက္ဆံတယ္၊ ရယ္စရာေမာစရာလည္းေၿပာ
ၿပီးကေလးေတြအေပၚမွာလည္း သိပ္ေကာင္းပါတယ္...
သူဟာ ကြ်န္မအိမ္ေထာင္ေရးၿပဳိကဲြၿပီးေနာက္အိမ္ကုိ ပထမဦးဆံုးေခၚလာနဲ ့တဲ ့အမ်ဴိးသားၿဖစ္ၿပီး ကေလး
ေတြကလည္းသူ ့ကုိတစ္ကယ္သေဘာက်ႀကၿပီး အဆင္ေၿပႀကပါတယ္...သူဟာသူတုိ ့ရဲ ့ဖခင္မဟုတ္သလို
အဲဒီေနရာကုိလည္းယူမယ္ ့သူမဟုတ္ပါဘူး...
ကြ်န္မသမီး မာရီယာဆုိ သူ ့ကုိပထမဦးဆံုးေတြ ့တာနဲ ့တင္ပဲ သူမရဲ ့လက္ပ္ေတာ့ကြန္ၿပဴတာကုိႀကည့္ေန
ရာကေန ကြ်န္မကုိ သူမၿမင္ေအာင္ေထာက္ခံတဲ ့အမူအယာကုိလုပ္ၿပေတာ ့တာပါပဲ...
ကေလးေတြကလည္း ဘယ္သူမွ သူ ့ကုိမႀကဳိက္ဘူးလို ့မေၿပာႀကပါဘူး...တစ္ကယ္ဆုိ ကြ်န္မတုိ ့စကားေၿပာ
ေနတံုး ေႀကးစားလက္ေ၀ွ ့သမားၿဖစ္တဲ ့သားအႀကီးဆံုး ဘရက္ဒေလ တစ္ေယာက္ ၀င္လာခဲ ့ပါေသးတယ္..
သူလည္း ပေထြးေတာ္ရမယ္ ့သူနဲ ့ေအးေအးေဆးေဆးပါပဲ...
အေမစိတ္ခ်မ္းသာယင္ ကြ်န္ေတာ္လည္းေပ်ာ္ပါတယ္....ကရိတ္ႀကည္ ့ရတာလူေကာင္းတစ္ေယာက္ပါ လို ့
လည္းသူကဆုိခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
အခုရက္ပုိင္းေတြမွာေတာ ့ဂ်ဴိအန္းနဲ ့သူမရဲ ့ယခင္ေယာက်ာၤး ဂြ်န္တုိ ့ဟာ ကေလးေတြအတြက္နဲ ့ပံုမွန္ဆက္
ဆံေနခဲ ့ႀကပါတယ္...ဒါေပမယ္ ့သူမအေနနဲ ့သူႏွင္ ့ကြာရွင္းခဲ ့တဲ ့အေပၚ စိတ္ဆုိးေဒါသထြက္ေနခဲ ့ပါတယ္..
မႀကာေသးခင္ကပဲ သူမနဲ ့ကရိတ္တုိ ့ဟာ ဂြ်န္နဲ ့၎ရဲ ့ခ်စ္သူမိန္းကေလးအသစ္တုိ ့ကုိေတြ ့ဆံုခဲ ့ၿပီး စိတ္
ဆုိးေနခဲ ့ႀကေပမယ္ ့စကားမမ်ားရန္မၿဖစ္ပဲေအးေအးခ်မ္းခ်မ္းနဲ ့ေတြ ့ဆံုပဲြေလးၿပီးသြားခဲ ့ပါတယ္...
" ကြ်န္မတုိ ့မကြာရွင္းခင္အထိ ဂြ်န္ဟာ ေၿပရာေၿပေႀကာင္းႀကဳိးစားၿပီး ကေလးတစ္ေယာက္ေတာင္ထပ္ယူ
ဖုိ ့ေၿဖာင္းဖ်ပါေသးတယ္...အတိတ္ကုိၿပန္ေတြးႀကည္ ့ယင္ေတာ ့ကြ်န္မအေနနဲ ့ဂြ်န္အတြက္ ကေလးေတြယူ
ခဲ ့တာဟာ ကြ်န္မတုိ ့ႏွစ္ေယာက္ပုိမုိသံေယာဇဥ္ၿဖစ္ၿပီး အိမ္ေထာင္ေရးမၿပဳိကဲြေအာင္လုိ ့ႀကဳိးစားခဲ ့တာပါ
လားဆုိတာသိခဲ ့ရပါတယ္..." လို ့အခ်ိန္ၿပည္ ့အိမ္ေထာင္ရွင္မ မိခင္ၿဖစ္ေနတဲ ့ဂ်ဴိအန္ကေၿပာပါတယ္... " ဒါေပမယ္ ့လည္း အခုလိုၿဖစ္လာရတာ ေတာ ့ကြ်န္မအတြက္ေပ်ာ္စရာပါပဲ...ကြ်န္မက ကိုယ္၀န္ေဆာင္ရ
တာနဲ ့သားသမီးေတြေမြးရတာ ေပ်ာ္ပါတယ္..." လုိ ့လည္း သူမကဆုိပါတယ္...
ဂြ်န္က ၎အေနနဲ ့မိသားစု တစ္စည္းတစ္လံုးတည္းရွိေနဖုိ ့အိမ္ေထာင္ေရးမၿပဳိကဲြေအာင္အသည္းအသန္
ႀကဳိးစားခဲ ့ၿပီး ဇနီးၿဖစ္သူက ကရိတ္နဲ ့ကိုယ္၀န္မရခင္ ကြာရွင္းၿပတ္စဲခဲ ့ေတာ ့အလြန္ပဲစိတ္ဆုိးေဒါသထြက္ခဲ ့
တယ္လုိ ့ဆုိပါတယ္...
" ကြ်န္ေတာ္တုိ ့ဟာႏွစ္ေပါင္း ၂၂ ႏွစ္ႀကာေအာင္ေပါင္းသင္းခဲ ့ႀကၿပီး ကြ်န္ေတာ္ဆုိယင္လည္း ခ်စ္တဲ ့မိန္းမ
နဲ ့ကေလးေတြစား၀တ္ေနေရးအတြက္ တစ္ပါတ္မွာတစ္ရက္မွမနားပဲအလုပ္လုပ္ခဲ ့ရတာပါ...
ဂ်ဴိအန္းဟာ တစ္ကယ္ ့ကုိရွာမွရွားတဲ ့အိမ္ေထာင္ရွင္မိခင္ေကာင္းတစ္ေယာက္ၿဖစ္ပါတယ္...ဒါေပမယ္ ့
လည္း အခ်ိန္ေတြႀကာလာေတာ ့လည္း အခ်စ္ေတြၿပယ္သြားခဲ ့ႀကရတာပါပဲ...
ကြ်န္ေတာ္က ၿပန္ၿပီးအိမ္ေထာင္ေရးကုိအဖတ္ဆယ္နုိင္၊ ၿပန္တည္ေဆာက္နုိင္မယ္လို ့ထင္ထားတာ...ဒါေပ
မယ့္သူမက မႀကဳိးစားခဲ ့ပါဘူး...
သူမကုိယ္၀န္ရွိေနၿပန္ၿပီလို ့သိရေတာ ့ကြ်န္ေတာ္စိတ္ထိခုိက္ခံစားခဲ ့ရပါတယ္...ဘာၿဖစ္လုိ ့လည္းဆုိေတာ ့
ကြ်န္ေတာ္ကသူ ့ကုိခ်စ္ေနတံုးပဲလို ့ခံစားေနရၿပီး ကေလးဟာလည္းကြ်န္ေတာ ့ရင္ေသြးေလးၿဖစ္သင္ ့တယ္
လို ့ခံစားမိပါတယ္....အခုေတာ ့လည္းေနသားတစ္က်ၿဖစ္သြားပါၿပီ...အခုကြ်န္ေတာ္လည္း အတဲြအသစ္ရေန
ၿပီး ဘ၀ကေတာ ့ဆက္လက္ရွင္သန္ေနတာပါပဲ...
ကရိတ္ကလည္းလူေကာင္းသူေကာင္းပံုေပါက္ပါတယ္...ဂ်ဴိအန္းကလည္းသူ ့ကုိခ်စ္တယ္ ဆုိတာကြ်န္ေတာ္
သိပါတယ္...သူတုိ ့သာတစ္ကယ္လုိ ့လက္ထပ္ႀကယင္ေတာ ့ဒီေလာက္ႀကီးမားတဲ ့မိသားစုႀကီးကုိ တာ၀န္ယူ
ရုန္းကန္နုိင္တဲ ့ဒီေမာင္ကုိ အေလးၿပဳမိမွာပါပဲ... လြန္ခဲ ့တဲ ့တနဂၤေႏြေန ့က အဲဒီအိမ္ကုိေရာက္သြားေတာ ့ကေလးေတြက သူ ့အေပၚ၀ုိင္းတက္ေနၿပီးရယ္ေမာ
ေပ်ာ္ရႊင္ေနႀကတာ ့ကြ်န္ေတာ္ ့ၿဖင္ ့စိတ္ေတာင္တုိသြားမိတယ္...ဒါေပမယ့္လည္း ကေလးေတြအေနဲ ့သူနဲ ့
စိတ္ညစ္ေနမယ္ ့အစား ေပ်ာ္ေနတာကပဲေကာင္းပါတယ္လို ့ပဲသေဘာပုိက္လိုက္ပါတယ္...
ဂ်ဴိအန္းနဲ ့ကရိတ္တုိ ့လည္းေပ်ာ္ရြင္ေနနုိင္ပါေစလို ့ေမွ်ာ္လင္ ့ဆုေတာင္းပါတယ္...ဒါေပမယ္ ့ကြ်န္ေတာ္က
ေတာ့ကေလးေတြရဲ ့ဖခင္ပါပဲ...ဒါကေတာ ့ဘယ္ေတာ ့မွေၿပာင္းလဲလုိ ့မရပါဘူး..." လုိ ့ဂြ်န္ကဆုိခဲ ့ပါတယ္..

ဒါေႀကာင္ ့အခုကေလးသာေမြးခဲ ့ယင္ေတာ ့ကရိတ္အတြက္ ပထမဦးဆံုး သားဦး၊သမီးဦးၿဖစ္ၿပီး ဂ်ဴိအန္းအ
တြက္ကေတာ ့၁၆ ေယာက္ေၿမာက္ၿဖစ္ပါတယ္...
သူမကေတာ့ ဘ၀မွာဘယ္လုိေရွ ့ဆက္သြားဖုိ ့သိပါတယ္...သူကေတာ ့သိပါ ့ဦးမလား...
ဘာပဲေၿပာေၿပာ သူကေတာ ့တစ္ကယ္ ့ကုိ အာဂသတၱရွင္တစ္ဦးပါပဲ...

အဂၤလိပ္လိုသတင္းပါ....

To look at Joanne Watson, you would never guess she was almost five months ­pregnant with her 16th child.
She totters around in her high-heeled boots and size 4 skinny jeans, her make-up just so and not a hair out of place.
She pulls up her chiffon blouse to reveal a very neat little bump and a brown expanse of taut skin with not a hint of a stretch mark.

She looks at me as if I am slightly mad when I ask why she isn't a bit more, well, ragged round the edges.
'I don't feel any different when I'm pregnant,' says a bemused Joanne, 39, sitting in her neat-as-a-pin four-bedroomed home in Guernsey.
'I just get on with it. It's no big deal. I just bounce back. I really enjoy pregnancy and have loads of energy. I'm never tired.'
Besides, as Joanne explains, she never puts on more than a stone when she's expecting a baby and simply pings back to her normal 7st weight after the birth — a bit like all those celebrity yummy mummies.
Joanne, however, manages to do this on a diet liberally sprinkled with crisps and chocolate and without the help of a personal trainer or so much as seeing the inside of a gym.
How on earth does she juggle looking so ­effortlessly glamorous with the exhausting demands of such a large brood — the youngest of whom are just four, three and 22 months old?
She gives me another rather ­disconcerting 'what are you talking about?' looks. Thirty-five packed lunches a week? So what. Fifty-six ­laundry washes a month? No problem. Endless nappies? Used to them. Squabbling children? Yes. And? 'I'm very organised,' she says.

Only this time, her 16th pregnancy is rather different. For starters, all her children are blonde and she is expecting this one to be dark-haired when he or she is born in March next year. You see, it turns out there has been a dramatic change of personnel on the domestic front.
For Joanne split from her husband, John, 45, two years ago when she was seven months' pregnant with their youngest child, Indianna. She'd spent almost half of their 22-year ­marriage pregnant and regularly appeared in the papers, under the title Supermum, posing with a proud John and their ­strikingly ­attractive children.
But, behind the veneer of their seemingly happy family life, all was not well and there were bitter rows.
John worked all hours as a haulier and both of them felt increasingly neglected by the other. She claims he started drinking too much as their marriage unravelled - an ­accusation he denies.When their relationship finally­ ­collapsed in 2008, Joanne thought baby Indianna would be her last and resigned herself to life as a rather busy single parent and grandparent to her ­eldest daughters' two sons.
Then, in June, she started a ­relationship with leisure centre events co-ordinator Craig Le ­Sauvage, 34, who was her next-door neighbour 15 years ago when she was the young mother of a mere four children.
It was only meant to be a casual ­summer romance.
Well, that's what he thought, ­anyway. But three weeks after their first date, Joanne was - to her ­surprise and his stunned shock - pregnant again.
Today, they are engaged and Craig is not only ­looking forward to ­becoming a father for the first time, but facing the ­daunting prospect of becoming stepdad to Joanne's ­enormous brood.
So who could blame Craig for ­having the look of a ­rabbit trapped in the headlights as he sits down next to his future wife to talk for the first time of this momentous turn in his fortunes?
Few men, no matter how much in love, would relish the thought of a £1,340 monthly family food bill when used to catering for just the one.
Or, indeed, be willing to take on so many children whose loyalties may remain with their father. But Craig insists he is up to the ­challenge. This, despite the fact he is not yet living with Joanne and has absolutely no idea what he is ­letting himself in for.
A born-again Christian, Craig is not intending to move in with Joanne — and the 11 children still living at home — until they are married. ­
Hopefully, the wedding will be before the birth, because he wants their child to be born in wedlock.
It's quite some learning curve and he listens very intently as Joanne ­rattles off the names of her children. There's Natasha, 21, Bradley, 20, and Shanice, 18, who have now left home.
Then there's Mariah, 15, Georgia, 13, Caitlin, 11, Brittany, 10, Febrianne, nine, Charlie, eight, Lilly-Arna, seven, Nerilly-Jade, six, Armani, four, ­Tallulah, three, and Indianna, 22 months. Joanne's fourth child ­Augustina was born prematurely and died 20 hours after her birth.
And did we mention that Natasha has a five-year-old son, while ­Shanice's son is 14 months old? Craig will become step-grandfather to them, too. Quite an undertaking and not one Craig ever envisaged.

'When I first met Joanne 15 years ago, when she lived next door to me, I used to think how good-looking she was and what a lovely figure she had,' says Craig.
'Then, this year, when she started to come to the leisure centre where I work, I'd stop and say hello. I was struck by how good she still looked. One evening she flagged me down in the car park as I was about to drive home and blurted out: “Are you with anyone?' When I said “no', she replied: “Well, when are you going to ask me out for a drink?' I took her phone number and texted her the next day.

'I'd always found her attractive. I knew she had lots of kids because I'd read about her and I'd heard she had split up from her husband.
'To be honest, in the beginning, I thought it would just be a casual ­relationship, nothing serious, so it came as a complete shock when she told me she was pregnant after just three weeks.
'At first, I was a bit embarrassed and worried about what people would say. But I've come round to the idea now. Joanne's a lovely person and a very good mother, which is important to me because I had an unhappy childhood and was never close to my mum.

'I just thought: “If I'm happy, what does it matter what other people think?'
'We haven't been together long, but I do love her very much. Now, I can't imagine life without her. I feel ­something special with her.'
Craig proposed to Joanne earlier this month, three days after her divorce was finalised, by dangling her over the harbour railings at St Peter Port and jokingly threatening to drop her in the sea unless she said yes.
So he must be pretty serious.
'Of course, I'm nervous about ­becoming a stepfather to so many ­children, but they are great kids and I am not trying to replace their father. They already have a dad, so I am just ­looking for acceptance and ­friendship,' he says.
Joanne, flashing a sapphire and ­diamond engagement ring, adds: 'When Craig lived next door all those years ago, I always thought what a nice person he was and how well he treated his girlfriend. He was very kind, ­treating her as an equal.
'When I saw him again at the leisure centre, I thought: “He's cute.' So when I spotted him in the car park I acted on impulse, running over and flagging him down. I never thought it would lead to this. I was shocked when I got ­pregnant because it wasn't planned. I'd had an operation in February to remove fibroids and thought I wouldn't be able to conceive so easily again, but I knew the minute I was, even though I wasn't yet late with my period.
'I developed a spot on my nose and I only ever get spots when I'm ­pregnant. When I phoned Craig to tell him, he said: “Are you mad?' But I knew. A few days later, he came round with a pregnancy test and after a nice meal we went upstairs together to find out for certain.'
Craig continues: 'My heart lurched with shock. I did find it all a bit daunting and it took me a while to accept the situation.
'I told Joanne I thought it would be best if we split up because of how people talk and Joanne offered to have a ­termination, if that was what I wanted. But, after a while, I came around. I didn't want her to have an abortion, as I don't agree with it. I ­realised I wanted to have a baby with Joanne and for us to be a ­couple.
'In fact, if she'd told me she didn't want any more children, I probably would have dropped her.'
All well and good, but what of Joanne's children? One minute their mother was single, the next she not only had a new boyfriend but was expecting his baby. She is also ­bringing into their lives a man who admits he's had a ­troubled past.

Craig says his ­abusive childhood, at the hands of his late mother Elaine, led him in the past to dabble with drugs. He spent two terms in prison ­during his youth for drugs ­possession and theft, but says he's not touched drugs since ­undergoing ­rehabilitation six years ago with the Lighthouse Foundation, a Christian charity which helps drug abusers.
He says he has completely turned his life around. Craig doesn't like to dwell on the past, but it's been widely reported that his older brother was convicted in 2007 for the manslaughter of their mother Elaine on the grounds of ­diminished responsibility.
The court heard he was suffering from mental illness when he ­strangled the 49-year-old; like Craig, he claimed she was abusive.

Joanne knows all this but appears to have absolutely no concerns about Craig's suitability as a step-parent.
'Everyone has a past, ­no one's ­perfect, we all have skeletons in the cupboard,' she says blithely.
'Craig is a kind, gentle person who has overcome whatever ­problems he has had. What I do know is he treats me with respect, makes me laugh and is wonderful with my children.
'He is the first man I have ever brought home since my marriage ended and my kids really like and get on well with him. He is not their dad; they already have a dad and Craig would never want to replace him.'

'The first time my daughter Mariah met him, she looked up from her ­laptop and gave me a thumbs up when Craig wasn't ­looking. Not one of my children has said they don't like him.'
Indeed, as we are talking, Joanne's eldest son Bradley, a professional boxer, wanders in and appears to have a relaxed, amiable ­relationship with his stepfather-to-be.
'I'm happy if my mum's happy,' he says, before adding: 'Craig's OK.'
These days Joanne and her ­ex-­husband John try to remain ­amicable for the sake of the ­children, but she accepts he was desperately upset and angry when she ended the ­marriage.
Recently, she and Craig met up with John and his new ­girlfriend and the event passed without argument, despite obvious tension.

'Right up until our divorce, John was trying to get back with me, to persuade me to have another baby,' says Joanne, who is, unsurprisingly, a full-time mother. 'Looking back, I think for John having babies was his way of trying to bring us closer and paper over the cracks in our relationship.
'I was happy to go along with it because I love being pregnant and having children.'
John last night told the Mail he desperately wanted his marriage to work so that they could remain a family and was initially devastated and furious when his wife ended the relationship, before then becoming pregnant by Craig.
'We were together for 22 years and I worked 24/7 to support my family because I loved my wife and kids. Joanne is one-in-a-million and a ­brilliant mother, but over time ­something happened to cause our love to break down.

'I thought it could be repaired, but she didn't,' he says.
'When I found out she was ­pregnant again, I felt so hurt because deep down I still loved her and felt the baby should be mine. Now, I have come to terms with it. I have a new partner and life has moved on.
'Craig seems a nice guy and I know Joanne loves him. If they get ­married, I'll take my hat off to him for taking on such a large family.
'When I went round there last ­Sunday and saw all my kids ­climbing over him and laughing I did feel upset, but it's better they are happy with him than not.
'I hope Joanne and Craig will be happy together and I wish them well, but I am my children's father and I will always be.'
So, a new baby. Number one for Craig, but number 16 for Joanne.
She knows what to expect, but does he?